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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mother set up her will so that if I died before her, the money would go directly to my kids not my DH. And she told me about this.

The only thing she achieved was that we felt sad, strangely betrayed and then distanced ourselves further from her and her crazy mind-games.

She has now died and I got the money which also belongs to my DH because we're legally married.

Don't be a scumbag OP. Just don't do it.[/quote]

I would not be upset if my parents did this. The money would be going to your kids. Why wouldn't that be ok with your DH? I'd actually want my ILs to do that.

OP, use a trust.[/quote]

You’re an idiot. Your kids trust could still be used to pay their school tuition.
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I cannot understand why being safe and practical would offend anyone.[/quote]

Except the assumption is that the DH will piss the money away on frivolities. In our case my DH would use the money for our kids education and caring for them if he was away on work trips (moot during Covid I know). So not safe and not practical, just manipulative and excluding.[/quote][/quote]

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