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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]After I had been dating my now-husband for a year, I decided to go to law school three hours a way.  We were long distance for three years, but got engaged during that time and married right after I graduated.  It wasn’t always easy, but we stuck with it because we were committed to each other.

I guess the question for OP is, are you actually committed to your girlfriend, or are you just marking time with her?[/quote]

OP here. Very serious. I want to marry her. She doesn’t think a wedding will happen until her contract is up. I guess I’m just most upset that she didn’t even really talk me about things before even saying she would accept it. She just told me she was taking it. I would never do that. I would discuss things with her before making a decision. I’m starting to feel like my feelings for her are much stronger than hers are for me. Here I am making plans for our future, and she is making plans for herself. [/quote]

On the flip side, you’re asking her to make all of the compromises and sacrifices so that everything is as easy and comfortable as possible for you.

At that age, I would be hesitant about sacrificing my financial well-being for someone who wasn’t ready to propose yet.[/quote]

OP here. She knows I planned to propose. She knew the timeline. She knew I was looking at rings. We talked about all of this. She knows I have more than enough money to help her. [/quote]

At 31 she has no time to waste. Lot’s of talk but no action from you, a year and change into the relationship and you still had not moved in together. She is moving on. [/quote]

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