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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would donate my eggs in a heartbeat to my sister.  I guess I am surprised by the answers here but then again I guess I am not.  There are a lot of narcissists here.[/quote]

Very easy for you to type that on an anonymous message board.  Much different when it's your actual life.

I am 43 and using donor eggs.  I have a younger sister and I would never ask her for her eggs.  In fact she even brought it up once and I simply said that wasn't a route I was going to explore.  The emotional ramifications are enormous.

Also, I have to agree that since she has 2 healthy children, OP's sister should sit down.[/quote]

I made an organ donation to a stranger.  I definitely would donate my eggs to my sister.  It is a much easier process than what I've already done.

Again, I think there are a lot of narcissists here.  I feel sad for you all.[/quote]

Then you should know better. It's a terrible thing to be an altruistic donor and then judge others for not doing the same. I am also an organ donor and was very glad to do it. But from our shared pexerience, I understand how hard it is to ask someone to go through that - particularly if you have a contentious relationship with that person. Here, she would be carrying the child very shortly after having birthed her own during a pandemic. It is reasonable for her to have hesitations.

Don't get all high and mighty. We don't donate organs to rub it in other people's faces. Shame on you. [/quote]

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