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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][i]This is very much not the case with [b]my bf[/b] and his exwife. S[b]he is reactive and controlling[/b], esp when she has any hint that I am involved in plans or whatever. S[b]he is very inflexible [/b]on the schedule (I get that this is how some divorces are and have a right to be.) But the issue is his lack of wanting to fight with her and how it affects our relationship. I truly love this man. We have known each other for years. But I am reaching my breaking point in terms of boundaries.[/i]
Are you actually reading anything you wrote?
You are a girlfriend! That's it. She is the mother of his kids whom he puts first and their kids. As he should be.
For years you have known each other? What does that mean? You were his affair? You knew him when he was married in some capacity?
Why can't you have some self respect and do what is best for you and your kids?
Honestly, your BOYFRIEND and his ex sound like great parents. You and your dh sound like kids come last, after all your girlfriends and boyfriends and your vacation is to put your boyfriend as a priority?
If I was your kid, I would hate you guts and your boyfriends guts. I would know that I am the last thing in mom's head.
So needy and insecure.[/quote]

Ah, the bitter ex wives of dcurbanmoms have found the thread....[/quote]
Look op and one other pp who is divorced, just bcs you like to think some ex wives are bitter, and think that I am an ex doesn't make it so.
You are not fooling anyone with your "unwitty" retort. I am not an ex, I am in a happy marriage.
You are always posting this same drivel, and are recognizable. If you are so happy being the new piece, why are you here?[/quote]

Or, you could spend some time considering why so many women get so shafted by so many men, in order to create this cadre of bitter ex wives that you picture hunting down DCUM threads. I'm an ex wife and I am happy and relieved to be rid of my abusive ex, but would I potentially sound bitter about his girlfriends need to "blend" my kids into hers in a way that disrupts our custody schedule? Sure. Why? I had my life derailed and my family endangered and then mangled by a man who became abusive and alcohol addicted and has suspected brain damage from professional sports. Maybe you wouldn't be bitter or afraid of what the new girlfriend and him are up to, but I may be.  Maybe instead of perpetuating the abuse by dismissing people who have had hard times you could consider that listening to them may have some benefits. [/quote]

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