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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t have a problem with my children exploring their identity via sexual orientation and gender identity. If parents would just relax a little about it I don’t think kids would be as likely to make it as big if an deal in your life. Think about it: if your daughter who has just leaned about the existence of trans people comes up to you and says “I’m a boy” and you say “no you’re not,” how are they going to react? They will get upset at you and do what they can to prove they are a boy. If you say “great! I love you no matter what!” they will feel supported and won’t feel pressure either way.

If they are actually just exploring their identity and aren’t trans, no harm done. Whereas if you tell them they are wrong about their identity and they actually are trans, you have just seriously damaged your relationship and made your kid more likely to suffer from anxiety, depression, STDs and poor academic performance.

Also things like hormone blockers and breast binders are huge commitments and unless a child is very committed to their gender identity, they’re unlikely to keep it up for a long period of time. Yeah it happens but if they want to go that far, odds are they really are trans. [/quote]

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