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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, did you talk it through with your bf? Update?[/quote]

OP here. Yes. I apologized to my boyfriend for blindsiding him with news I’d been in touch with the fling, and acknowledged our communicating was inappropriate. I also set boundaries with the former fling and, though I don’t have secrets from my boyfriend, made a commitment to be as forthright as possible when things come up. As for his judgment of me, which I didn’t previously explain here, it centers around less-positive aspects of my past (I cheated once, was involved with a married person), and he acknowledged it was (unfairly) negatively affecting his view of me in spite of how I’ve shown up in this relationship. Meanwhile, he’s guilty of doing those same things, and is working to understand his bent towards judgment of others and how to improve.[/quote]

Sounds like match made in heaven. [b]Enjoy it while it lasts because it's not going to. You two are doomed. Wouldn't be surprised if one of you is cheating now.[/b][/quote]

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Unfortunately, this PP was exactly right. Someone was cheating and it was him. Found out today. Crazy![/quote]

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