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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m one of the posters who said uptbtead that I personally would not have been happy to get a note from someone I didn’t really know.  I respect that other people have different perspectives and acknowledge I may be more private than most.

I am a little surprised that none of the people who work in suicide prevention noted that there is a potentially problematic dynamic when kids who were never friends with the child before are suddenly reaching out and supportive due to the suicide attempt.  For a child who is depressed and socially isolated, if the depression and suicide attempt becomes the means to become “special” or to get positive attention, it can be really problematic.  I think it’s especially true where there’s a personality disorder at play and not just depression.  I’m not saying that kids shouldn’t support each other, but there’s a sort of complicated line here.  Suicide is different from other health conditions in this way.  I’m not the most educated on this but my child did DBT to recover post-attempt and I think one of the tenets of DBT is that kids should not really be discussing this stuff with peers outside of the mediated DBT program.  I think if my kid knew of another kid who had attempted suicide, I would encourage them to be extra kind to the kid, reach out to suggest a movie night or a hike or dog walk or whatever, [b]but not have my kid specifically talking about the attempt with the child, [/b]or making it seem like the friendly overture is motivated by the attempt.  [/quote]

I 100% agree with the bolded statement. I don't hink children are equiped to have this discussion with their peers. [/quote]

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