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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All I can say is bonding intimacy is real[/quote]

Yes. Best sex of our lives.  Hysterical bonding post-affair is real.  It hasn’t let up in 10 months. It’s like we are 25 again and can’t get enough of each other.  Sometimes more than once a day.  Much more intimate outside of the bedroom too.  [/quote]

I don't understand.  Don't you feel pathetic?  How do you convince yourself that he loves you or that he's worth loving?[/quote]

No.  Not at all.  He ended it and did a ton of therapy, still in therapy.  We had a very good 25 years together.  He was totally forthcoming.  He was monogamous for 23 years prior.  That’s a pretty big deal right there.  Not a serial or repeat cheater.  He signed a generous post-nup, got a vasectomy and testing.  It was a long process.  I threw him out of the house initially and refused couples therapy.  He had thorough testing.  He went immediately and again 60 days later. I didn’t touch him during that time.  I wasn’t sure what I was going to do, but every day he showed up with great remorse and transparency and is determined to fight for me and our family.

We have a great family.  He’s a great father and a good husband that made an awful mistake that he’s been paying for and making up for ever since.

I have my own career so I’m not in it for the $.  His was more of the every 6 week, no contact type thing in between. Not a woman he saw frequently and sent constant messages, etc.

I’m not throwing a family/marriage future in the trash and messing up my kids’ lives for a man that shows through his daily actions that he loves us and will do anything.

People shaming women and men for staying are a big problem.  I’m certainly not a victim and don’t really give a sh@t what anyone else thinks.  It’s my life.[/quote]

Aren't you the one whose husband used Ashley Madison and who hacked his iPhone location while he met up with her at lunchtime?  [/quote]

At least she’s stable now.  [/quote]

Well, if it is her, she's a liar, because she's said previously that she was divorcing him.[/quote]

Sounds like the sex is amazing.  Jealous.[/quote]

Yeah. Sigh.  My husband is good for once every other month.[/quote]

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