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[quote=Anonymous]If he didn’t want kids before he met you, he doesn’t want them now.  What he does want is to f**ck a younger woman without protection, and he may want to get you pregnant which isn’t the same as wanting to have a family with you.  He just knows how to say the words you want to hear since he’s had 30 more years experience on the planet then you have.

If I’m wrong, tell him you want to get married tomorrow or even today.  I don’t understand why you all are engaged and not already married if he is sincere in what he’s telling you.  The world is not kind to single moms which is what you are on the verge of becoming.

As for business school, go.  I might have a different answer if you were legally married and trying to get pregnant.  You are not, at least not legally married.

I’m concerned that he’s offering you experience in your business which won’t get you far if/when you break up.  Nobody speaks well of an ex, at least not initially.  Also, you don’t want to get tagged as having gotten your work experience because you were sleeping with the boss. You are worth more then that.  Business school would be good for you and offers things he can’t offer.

As for him being self conscious about the age difference, he needs to get over that. He is choosing to date you, if he doesn’t present like the luckiest man on the planet, that is a problem.  I’d say this about a guy your own age too, he should be thrilled at getting to do life with you.

I’d run, op.  Normally I’d say you are an adult and so is he, but I’m getting a yucky vibe from this situation.

Normally I’d say you

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