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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=ninanoriella][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Eh. It's not a bad idea. Marry an old guy with money, have a kid or two, and in ten years when he slows down and needs a nurse, you'll still be young enough to start over.[/quote]
Is he rich enough to pay for a nurse or will OP have to be the caregiver.

When the man is 80, and probably needing some help, OP will be my age.. 50.  I can tell you right now, that as a 50 yr old woman, in no way in h3ll would I want to take care of a husband who is as old as my father. I'd be taking care of both elderly men.  Gag.. h3ll no.

OP may end up having to take care of her elderly husband and elderly parents at the same time.  [/quote]

OP here. Yes- he easily has enough money to support what would be equivalent to several generations of my family and do it well. He already has a household manager, housekeeping, driver, and a personal assistant that has been helping me out with my work. [/quote]

Oh okay. Standard “youth for money” transaction. Go for it.  But be careful with your prenup. You don’t want to be left penniless if when you’re 40 he decides his next wife should be 22. [/quote]

+1. I probably would not be this blunt about it, but essentially this - make sure you are going to be set up financially in the even of divorce, his end of life if he lives to be elderly, or his death. You are giving up certain parts of your youth here. I'd also make getting a college degree a priority.[/quote]

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