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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The women I've known who do this have really low self-esteem.  [/quote]

The one woman I know who knowingly does this is deeply, deeply insecure. She claims that she hates commitment but it's pretty obvious she is afraid or feels like she's not worthy of someone committing to her, so she lacks the self respect to seek out a 'normal' (for lack of a better word) relationship. It's like she thinks that by a married man choosing her and spending all this time and money on her she is showing that she's more worthy or something because they are 'choosing her' and risking so much to be with her, which doesn't make sense to me, but that's the sense I get.

But to the PPs talking about 30 minutes in the back of a car, the woman I'm thinking of often meets them on business trips and they fly to see her and stay with her for a week at a time, buy her expensive gifts, etc. Sorry to burst your bubble that all affairs are quickies in motel lots, but plenty of husbands are spending time, money, and energy on the OW/AP.  [/quote]

And, in this day and age, with Internet and the pool so willing...many men are offering up almost nothing.  That's even more pathetic. But-these are usually older, married women that resort to screwing for kibbles.[/quote]

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