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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One of my good friends is now doing this for the second time. I don’t get it because she could do so much better. She’s pretty, great career, etc. yet she finds herself being the other woman for now a second time. Please help me understand. Finding it more difficult to hear her vent because I just don’t understand it. [/quote]

I mean the obvious answer is that she falls for men above her grade, and men of that caliber are only willing to sleep with her but not marry her.  For whatever reason, she thinks that men of her grade (available and interested in marrying her) are beneath her.   Many women start from the position of overestimating their worth as a partner but most usually adjust their vision in time. [/quote]

Grade? What is this, India? What caste system do you live in? Do you mean "rich"? Because a cheaters "grade" would be low, in my book. [/quote]

You may resist the idea but there are grades on the dating market.  I mean George Clooney wouldn't date you, and you wouldn't date the guy who hangs your drywall so that's that. [/quote]

Yes, but in your metrics you seem to imply that a cheating lying man is of a high grade. I disagree with you. Yes, I'm a good looking trust fund brat who is not a cheating lying man with a wife at home, I definitely would date, but never marry or partner with the drywall guy. I mean, if he was hot.[/quote]

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