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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. To the two previous posters, thanks for your insight. It is sad that you were not able to find somebody worthy, but I am glad that you are in a good place now.

I have always envisioned myself with a trusted partner who is my best friend and companion. I had such a relationship with my ex-husband until he started cheating during my pregnancy.  I was/am so hoping to find a wonderful relationship again. [/quote]

OP. Getting rid of a cheating partner takes time and give yourself some time reorient and find what you want. [/quote]

YOu say you "always envisioned yourself with a trusting partner" and that your ex was such a person, a best friend and companion. If you are low 40's and you found out over a decade ago that the person you call your trusted best friend was sleeping with you, then you chose to STAY with that person for a DECADE in a bad marriage, who is to believe that you have any self esteem at all?

Sounds like you might want to work on your dreams vs. how to make those dreams a reality. Sounds to me like you've never had a trusted partner and best friend, and that you idealize such a relationship without recognizing your part in attracting and maintaining one. [/quote]

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