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[quote=Anonymous][quote]No, actually, PP, if you think your spouse is cheating, the last thing you want to do is confront them before having evidence. Cheaters are liars. When they are confronted they will lie, deny, and gaslight.

I don’t know why OP suspects cheating, but if he has suspicions, he would be wise to look more deeply. OP, look at computer history, credit card purchases, the telephone bill and the numbers called look, at the gas mileage on the car, and put a GPS in the trunk. Something simple like a tile will tell you where the car goes. If you find evidence, then discuss with an attorney because evidence that you collect will not be admissible in court.

Keep your mouth shut and your eyes wide open.[/quote]

I agree.  But here's why.  My DH convinced himself last summer that I was having an affair.  I wasn't---like a PP above said---Covid just made people crazy and I would get out of the house more---take walks, go to my office.  But DH finally asked me, after becoming increasingly irritable and drinking to excess over an 8 week period.  I was blown away that he thought I was cheating on him and my feelings are still hurt that his opinion of my character was so low that he thought this was a possibility (though I understood why he was paranoid---his best friend had just gotten divorced because his wife had cheated).  But had my DH checked all of those things, it would have shown that I was not carrying on.[/quote]

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