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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is the only reason you want a divorce is that you think she is cheating?  Makes sense that you would be sure of that before you discuss splitting up. [/quote]

yes we have a good marriage, no major arguments, some sex, etc but if she has cheated, no matter what she says/does to repent there will only be a divorce from my end immediately. i just want to know if its worth getting PI to document any illicit affair .. or do courts not give a shit and split assets 50/50 anyway? [/quote]

Courts don't care.  No fault divorce.  She's getting the money regardless, just like she would if you were the one cheating.  Maybe spend your energy trying to figure out what's really going on rather than trying to cheat her out of money that is also rightfully hers. (hence the cheating being irrelevant)[/quote]

is cheating a no fault divorce? if adultery is proven? hence my question..[/quote]

Op here .. would be nice if anyone in legal profession can chime in (we are in VA) .. of course I am also looking at getting legal advice but I feel like I need some answers now (weekend) and will only be torturing myself waiting till the weekday to talk to a laywer[/quote]

Dude, we can see if she is cheating it is because you abuse her emotionally or control issues. Your last sentence tells the rest of us all we need to know. You posted on social media and now are mad that the "professionals" have not answered you.

Clearly, you are not reading the posts.

No matter what you say or what she has possibly done 50/50 dude nothing less.

That's the law period.

You can keep her in court for years, burn your money down, alienate your children, and let everyone know the POS you really are, but in the end, it's still 50/50 and the judge will make you pay.

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