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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why aren’t you attracted to him OP? Sure we are both getting older, but attraction for me is more than looks. I’ve been married 20 years this fall. I’m still wildly attracted to my husband, and have a high drive.  He makes me laugh and makes me want to connect with him physically.[/quote]

DH won me over on effort and now the effort is all gone. We are both fit and physically attractive. DH is probably more handsome than when I met him at age 23. He does not make me laugh. In fact, I rarely even smile around him. He is a good provider and a good dad. The bar is just so low for being a good husband.[/quote]

You basically described my DH except he is very funny. But I still don't want to have sex with him. If women were more honest with themselves, sex just isn't something you want with the same person after a while. What was new and exciting is not. That's great for men you can get aroused at a warm breeze, women can't.

And to the open marriage guy, I still let him have sex with me. Do I need to pretend on anonymous boards I love it?[/quote]

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