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[quote=Anonymous]Quick story OP. I grew up in anew England and moved into the South in ES. I had a great, joined at the hip, inseparable BFF in MS. We were at her house one day when her mom asked her to come into the other room. When she came back, I asked what the mom wanted. And she said her mom had told her to be very careful around me because she was starting to detect a “yankee accent” in her daughter.  And her daughter should make a special effort not to talk like me.

I was mortified, as 13 year old girls often are, and because very self conscious around her parents. Literally every time I opened my mouth I knew they were judging me.  I knew the looked down on my accent.  I went from being over at her house all the time to never going over.

About the same time, she started doing strange things at my house, like opening closets in the guest bedroom. When I asked why, she said her parents told her to check things at our house like closets, toothbrushes in bathrooms, shampoo in shower, etc and make sure there was no sign a boyfriend was staying there (I had divorced parents).

And, that was the end of the friendship.

Tl;DR:  I’m sure you could say something and destroy this friendship. But, stable Ms friendships are hard to come by.  Take the stable friendship, even if it comes with oreos once a week. [/quote]

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