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Reply to "Did you take revenge on a cheater or the other man/woman?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] Agree. You were an active part of the many reasons why your marriage was troubled. And it isn't victim blaming- it is acknowledging that marital problems are deeper than cheating. [b]Cheating is a symptom of a bad marriage, not the cause[/b].[/quote] This is actually so uninformed that I question your intelligence. Cheating is most definitely not a symptom a bad marriage, it is a symptom of bad character. Many times, partners who cheat will admit their marriage was just fine - that’s why they are desperate to save it when the cheating is discovered. In an unhappy marriage that involves cheating, both partners are in the same marriage and one chose to cheat (the one with crappy coping skills).[/quote] If one person is cheating they are either unhappy, unfulfilled, or have a personality disorder. Either way, cheating isn't the "only" thing that went wrong. It never is.[/quote] Personality disorders are a big part of cheating. [/quote]
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