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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe she doesn't like that you have been...treating her like a messenger?

She's not wrong. You should apologize. And if DH doesn't want you contacting his farther, why are you contacting FIL ny proxy?! [/quote]

"My husband and his son (my step-son) aren't on speaking terms.  My step-son has a drinking problem and my husband has decided not to take his calls anymore.  My DIL knows this, but keeps sending me videos of her kids, as well as videos of my step-son drunk, and asking me to show them to my husband.  She won't send them directly to my husband because her own husband has told her not to.  I'm really uncomfortable being an intermediary here, and I don't like being asked to circumvent my husband's and step-son's wishes.  It's their relationship to work out, and it's not really my place to interfere.

Plus, she never asks me how I'm doing, she just tells me to forward the message like I'm the secretary.  (She did try to get me to buy her MLM crap, though.  I ignored those messages.)  I finally told her that I didn't like being her messenger, and she got pissy and told my husband.  Fortunately, he completely agrees that I shouldn't be in the middle of this, and her attempt to tattle-tale didn't really help her case."  
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