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Reply to "H accuses me of refusing to take the bar exam while solely caring for 8-year-old during pandemic"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can't afford a mortgage on take home of 12k per month? Sure you can. You should be stashing a ton of money for yourself, at your current income. Prepare for divorce. It sounds like he is. Pay for childcare so you can study for the exam, if that is of importance right now.[/quote] $12K a month is my family's entire gross pay and we're not badly off. There's zero reason to have money problems (either needing a provider OR complaining about someone not putting their weight on that income.[/quote] OP here. Decent houses in the area where we would both like to live start at around $2m. So my $12k take-home pay (before taxes) will not go far. But I agree, I should not aspire to live in that expensive place.[/quote] Take my word for it - freedom in a condo > ahole spouse in a SFH. You do not need a “nice house”. You need a nice family. It sounds like that can only happen if you ditch your spouse.[/quote]
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