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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So let me get this straight.   His position is that you need to take the bar so you can earn more money so he can divorce you and not pay as much support.  And since you’re not studying for the bar to make more money so it’s easier for him to divorce you, you must be a lazy person.  And some part of you looks at this scenario and thinks huh, maybe I am lazy and not doing enough.  Instead of, perhaps, just maybe, thinking holy crap, I’m married to a horrible human and maybe this is an emotionally unhealthy situation for not only myself, but also my child.  Because if your thought process is the former rather than the later, he has done a number on you and you need some sort of giant wake-up call.   I hope this thread is it.  [/quote]

OP here. Sadly, it is the former... PP, thank you for the wake-up call. I just don't understand how my husband can have so little empathy for me. He says I am making excuses for not hiring enough online tutors. [/quote]

OP, know the truth, and the truth will set you free. You love your husband and want to stay married. You are hurting yourself holding on to this marriage. You don't understand how he can have so little empathy. It is because you don't mean the same to him that he means to you. It is painful. You have to get it though. Accept it. Be free. Better will come to you, if you let this go. [/quote]

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