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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Thank you! These resources are really helpful. I don't know that I'm all of the way to counseling yet. I'm sure I will get there though. Just shifting my perspective has been so helpful. I'm NOT crazy, weak, or stupid, and my feelings ARE valid. For the moment, it's enough to just know that without needing him to see it or get it. [/quote] https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/married-with-undiagnosed-autism-why-women-who-leave-lose-twice-0420164[/quote] This article is BS. The kids start picking up on their Aspie unempathetic, disinterested, odd parent around age 7-8. They can get extremely frustrated asking the aspie parent for the same thing over and over or being totally forgotten. They also get embarrassed at group functions where the aspie won’t know what to say, and will start lecturing plus ask a question that was literally just discussed 5 minutes ago. In my case we literally had to ignore my father most of our teens, it was loony bins land and trying to explain the same simple thing to him 50x was insanity. It was insanity. I was so happy and almost a new, healthier person once I left for college. My mother really blossomed once my younger brother left, she was relieved to have made it thought, but was a shell of a person. This article is a Bs attempt at bullying an NT into staying in a dysfunctional marriage with a dysfunctional person, by pretending that kids are dim witted pawns. [/quote]
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