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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a 36 yo man that has had a non-traditional path. I joined the military out of high school then got an internal scholarship to a college degree at 26 and commission as an officer. I didn't want to start a family while on active duty. Left the military at 32 and have been building my civilian career in the DMV.

Dating for me has been disappointing. I'm politically moderate and honestly can't stand both sides and largely avoid the news, but I've been rejected by women in this area as being too conservative. I'm successful (senior manager in fortune 100 company) with no debts but it doesn't seem to make a difference.

Women I have dated around my age are usually successful with their own career and it seemed like unless I was an executive or high equity owner my career didn't matter to them. Women in their mid to late 20s seemed to be focused on their corporate career and just want a steady BF and nothing too serious. I haven't dated anyone younger than 25 recently.

I'm not picky but the sheer percentage of overweight women also really thins the numbers of eligible partners. Couple that with single mothers and it becomes challenging to find a long term partner for marriage.[/quote]

How would you look at a single mother of a very easy teen (fully financed by his dad), around your own age (37 y.o.) with her own fortune (a real estate trust that makes 200k/year) and a job that makes 70K/year (just for hobby and keep herself busy during the day). A great cook, entertainer, conversationalist, traditional views - goes to church, comes back from work early to have a family dinner ready for her husband.  A long 15 y.o. marriage behind her shoulders that fell apart due to his adultery. That's me.  [/quote]

What does your $270k per year have to do with anything?[/quote]

He seems to be seeking "successful" women, while wanting "traditional" profile at the same time. It is typically an unsolvable equation, as ladies with career won't be "traditional" or wouldn't care for his own career and support him in that. Someone with high income yet able to lead a traditional lifestyle would be a good fit for this man, in my view. [/quote]

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