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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You guys told me to dump my mediocre bf in my late 20s and now you're saying everyone good is taken by 30. WHAT IS IT. [/quote]

If you think the person was only mediocre, then you did both of yourselves a favor by ending it. Marry someone you love and respect by 35. This usually means meeting them by your early 30's. This isn't conflicting advice.[/quote]

Yeah, that way you can be 60 at their college graduation. If you live to 60.[/quote]
Is that that unusual? I say this as someone whose dad had just turned 50 right before my college graduation and he was one of the younger dads in my friend group.

My parents are on the younger side (26 and 28 when I was born) and dh's are on the older side (34 and 39 when he was born) and I would say my in-laws are much more in line with the age of our peers' parents. I definitely think you don't want to be too old when you have kids (if you can help it - if you don't get married until 40 and get pg at 42, awesome, go for it!), but I'm not sure that "you'll be 60 when they graduate from college" is shocking or "out-there." You're being a bit of a fear-monger. [/quote]

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