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Reply to "When you don't like a person in your broader friend group, which is the best way to handle?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pretty done with Mean Girl OP. "Honesty" does not mean saying everything you think out loud. There's dishonest: "Oh I adore you, Amy! We're best friends!" There's best-behavior cordial: "Hi Amy! I like your dress [keep moving and sit at the opposite end of the table]." There's honest: [if someone actually asks you if you like her] "We don't have much in common, but then again we do share a lot of friends." And then there's Mean Girl: "Uggghhh, I don't know why Eliza insisted on inviting Amy. I don't like her. Just being HONEST."[/quote] This! Plus: The reality is everyone encounters people they don’t like, but normal people employ social niceties when moving through life. Think about what we tell our kids about being kind and polite. Has OP just thrown those rules out the window? Does her honesty trump basic decency? Gentle tip, op: your larger group might like the other lady or her husband better than you. Tread lightly. [/quote]
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