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[quote=Anonymous]Some of you can’t understand that the boyfriend is taking a trip with his son *and* some family friends.  It’s not an either or here.  Also, what family is he speaking of?  He isn’t still married is he?

I get it op.  I can’t understand why he didn’t invite you knowing that if you all broke up before the trip, you’d just not go.

For those of you saying you’d kick someone to the curb, or that it “isn’t a good look” op isn’t your plaything or her boyfriend’s for that matter.  She’s got every right to want the “boyfriend treatment” if what she describes is accurate.

Put another way, if he can go on a trip with “family friends” why can’t op go?  At what point does she become someone he introduces to people he cares about?

I’d be hurt too, op.

If I were you, I’d tell him how you feel. If he doesn’t invite you, I’d end it.  This isn’t a trip he planned before you all met, or a trip happening tomorrow, though by six months… I’d still think he’d want to include you.  This trip is happening a year from now.

Put another way, nobody will stick around if you treat them like they aren’t worthy of you.  At some point, you integrate the girl/guy, you break up, or you have an f buddy relationship.  You don’t have a romantic interest and then sideline them for the sake of old friends and children and expect them to put up with it. 
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