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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Team DH. Low-libido guys and ladies, you need to understand that when you go below 4x/year, we high-libido partners are not willing to give up ANYTHING for sex with you, which, due to lack of frequency, is not usually great anyway.  [b]DH gets no blow jobs or hand jobs or any kind of initiating from me after years of his not caring enough to try to meet me even a third of the way sexually.[/b]

OP, You are lucky to still be married. He is probably trying to hold on to hope by keeping hair that there will be Sex After You.[/quote]

This exactly.[b] If you reject someone that much for years, they aren't easily manipulated into sex again.[/b] After years of rejection, my wife will occasionally initiate, I just have zero interest in her now. But lots of interest elsewhere.

I cringe when I hear people tell couples to be patient while their low libido spouse feels like doing it again. Unless its immediately post-partum, it's terrible advice.[/quote]

+! on this.

The OP's DH must be a saint to still hanging tough, even hopeful and optimistic enough to working on his hair, in a marriage with a controlling and manipulative spouse. OP, take some time to reflect on what has already given up to be with you, lost from this life, because of your mismatched libidos and then understand and respect him.[/quote]

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