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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh my.. another Team DH here. You are the one who gave the ultimatum. How you have the gall to complain about his libido when you have given him this treatment for years is beyond me.. Good for you to get a taste of it, you will understand how awful it is to live with someone who has a lower libido and doesn’t care to change it.

He is right to tell you that he is not going to stop taking it if you don’t change your own efforts. The pill actually helps him not suffer from your rejection, in his shoes I would see it as a win win.

Woman here btw. I have been on both sides of this equation (the low libido compared to high libido partner and the higher libido than DH), and I REALLY understand the issue on both sides. It needs to be a compromise, meeting halfway, and the lower libido partner CAN do something to get himself/herself in the mood instead of just magically waiting for it to happen. I have been there and have no patience for those who cannot make the effort to understand their partners’ needs.

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I am the higher libido partner and my partner says because of that fact, it's *my* job to woo her and get her in the mood, not hers.[/quote]

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