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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I find this whole thread bizarre. In a world of everyone trying to be woke and sensitive to issues people face and have faced, this woman is trying to do the best she can to respond helpfully. And DCUM comes down on her way too harshly.

Agreed, it is none of her business, but DSS has asked and she's trying to be helpful. She's the one who wants them to get counseling. And they should.

I think the only weird part of this is that a BFF told fiancé that fiancee's life in HS was terrible and the mom talked about it too. THAT is overstepping. A SM trying to help, as long as she is not pushing some sort of agenda, is what most any mother would do.

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I agree.  If the stepson asked for advice, it's reasonable for OP to want to be helpful.  And there seem to be reasons to be concerned.  That said, the only thing OP can do is give advice.  It's between her stepson and his fiancee to figure this out.

It might be that the BFF didn't realize that Fiancee hadn't told Stepson the truth about her childhood.  She might have just been reminiscing, or talking about it in some other context, and not realized that it was a secret.  We really can't say based on the limited information.  [/quote]

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