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Reply to "Woman says accepting her husband's desire to divorce 'with diginity' leads to domestic violence"
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[quote=Anonymous]Affairs are an extreme form of emotional abuse. If emotional violence were a thing, affairs would fit that category. I was also blindsided by (now) ex husband's affair, and we also had 2 young kids. She is right, that it makes everyone else more comfortable if the abused spouse just shuts up and recites some socially acceptable BS line that makes everyone else feel better. She didn't damage the kids by telling them their dad left. HE left. His leaving the way he did hurt the kids. He caused the damage. Acknowledging it doesn't damage anyone. How dysfunctional of anyone to expect her to lie to her kids and be complicit in protecting someone who did this to her? [/quote]
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