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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She was blindsided.  Two young girls and married 20-years.  He gave her no reason.  Just said he’s leaving.

That could make you lose your mind.

I’m not a social media person and private, but everyone deals with it differently.  I’m not justifying it, but temporary insanity in these circumstances happens.  [/quote]

Shouldn't being a better mother triumph over 'temporary insanity' - she posted about confronting her 7-year-old with the news that he left on the same day. No gentle talks, no giving it a moment, no therapy sessions on how to cope before the news is broken. That's not being a good parent.[/quote]

So mommy should have lied? Of course she had to tell the kids the same day. Do you think a 7 year old wouldn't notice daddy didn't come home and all his things were gone? Last night my husband had a late meeting and all through dinner my 2 year old was asking "daddy go to store? daddy work?"[/quote]

The gossip from the newspaper would have been all over the community.  She had to tell her something.[/quote]

She's 7. Schools are closed all across California. All she had to say was 'Daddy is away for a few days and tomorrow we're going to have a Big Girls breakfast and talk'. Talk in the morning could have been about what different families look like and how their family might be changing then gave the girl a day off from schoolwork, turn off the internet access (easy to do), and took her to an emergency therapy session on the 3rd day.

What she did instead was unstable and narcissistic. [/quote]

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