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Reply to "How would you feel if your adult child wrote you a letter about their traumas from childhood? "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Two kinds of people here and in life, the kinds that have empathy for this because they understand what trauma in childhood is because they have lived it, and those that had pretty good childhoods but were mad at their parents for normal stuff and therefore believe that letters like this are silly and whiny. As other people have said, write it, don't send it. If your parents were bad enough to justify a letter from the first group of people above, than they will not react how you want them to and it will just drag out your pain. Instead put strong boundaries in place and live your life well in spite of them and seek out a therapist so you are not held down by the weight of these events. And if you're in the second group you shouldn't send it for obvious reasons.[/quote] Finally. A sane, balanced answer.[/quote]
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