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[quote=Anonymous]I'll say that while OP was wrong, I totally get it. My ow MIL could have written this post 15 years ago. She did the same thing. We limited the invite list to four couples per parent set. My MIL was upset, not upset like mad at us or made a big deal of it. But it was clear that in her head this was also a big day for her (which it was) and in her experience attending weddings of her friends' children, there were always many couples invited. She expected it because it was what she was used to. OP, no you can't offer to pay for more couples. Yes, you must choose which ones to invite. And yes it is a difficult situation you are in- regardless of whether you had wrongly "pre-invited" anyone. But I agree with others' suggestion- reframe this as being about your son and future DIL. Focus on what you can do to make it great for them. [/quote]
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