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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are people talking about the child getting OPs last name? This is super common. Almost all babies get their dads last name. This is not a new concept. [/quote] It’s irrelevant whether it’s common or not- it’s still one of many examples of how things are already skewed to the father’s benefit- hence why it makes it fair for the mother to at least get primary say in the first name to slightly even the balance out. (I’m sure if a father was willing/able to somehow gestate and deliver the baby, breastfeed and serve as the primary parent for the early years, and have the baby take the mother’s family name most mothers would happily hand over the privilege of selecting the first name).[/quote]
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