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Reply to "Feeling extremely discouraged. A rant."
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[quote=Anonymous]First of all, is it possible that your husband is depressed? I would encourage him to consult a mental health professional to see if there is a real, underlying problem. Second, you are married, so whatever you bring in plus whatever he brings in is all family money (i.e. YOU would not be paying for childcare). Finally, you need to hire childcare, even if it’s just part time. I am sure you and your husband both love your kids, but the way your posts read it sounds like you are both at a place where you resent taking care of them (presumably because you resent each other, not your kids). But I would be very concerned about the kids picking up on that resentment which is obviously not healthy for them. So pay for enough help where you can both happily take care of them while you deal with the issues you are having in your marriage. [/quote]
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