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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband is the same.  He will commit to getting up for a morning and then “accidentally” fall asleep watching tv in the basement so I’m stuck with the morning again.  If I call him on it that morning I get yelled at for “assuming bad intent” and if I ask him to come up when I go to prevent it from happening I get accused of being controlling and micromanaging.

It’s all bullshit and just his pathetic attempt to create a distraction so he can neglect his family responsibilities.  No advice just sympathy. For me it’s not worth upending the kids lives to divorce him now, but I no longer envision my retirement with him [/quote]

YES. The straight up laziness is such a turn off. He’s so thoughtless. He’s home all day everyday and has been for the past year. If I ask if he can do a load of laundry while I’m at work he’ll say yes and not do it. Or I’ll ask him to preheat the oven so I can get ahead of dinner before I get home, he’ll forget. Basically asking him to do tiny things to make life go smoother is met with such lack of care, I feel like I’m going to snap.[/quote]

And up until a year ago was he like this? could he possibly depressed instead of lazy?   [/quote]

Yes, but not to this extent. Working from home during covid has made it infinitely worse. I thought it would be nice because we wouldn’t both be hustling out the door early, wouldn’t have our daughter gone from home so long everyday. But it’s not been any easier on me, but way easier for him. I can’t wait till they force him back to the office.[/quote]

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