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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I will definitely encourage her to speak with a lawyer - or two - re immigration and divorce so she knows more about her options. I definitely don’t think she should try to get pregnant - I know she anticipates having trouble conceiving due to pcos and why would she want to have kids with a jerk who cheated on her?[/quote]

Well if she doesn't want to have kids with a jerk who cheated then it's solved. She should immediately file for divorce. However, from your post she wants to try and work it out. If that's the case she needs to make a decision quickly about having her children. Worst case they divorce down the road and like every other couple will have to co-parent.  She invested a lot, and should do what's best for her at this point. [/quote]

But wouldn’t having kids just further complicate it, especially given the international issues? If she had a kid, they split and she wants to move back to the US, it might not be possible, right?[/quote]

I assume she already thought about all that upon marrying the guy.  It sounds like she's where she wants to be. Getting divorced and hoping to find someone is going to be the big problem. Then finding out down the road she can't conceived because she's too old. In your late 40's, or 50's your job gets old if that's all you have fyi.  [/quote]

Op - when they got married he was open to kids. Then he had something happen at work (he worked with kids) and changed his mind/started saying he was never sure he wanted kids. I’m quite sure the affair is related to his feelings about kids. [/quote]

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