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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lots of miserable divorcees on here.  Misery loves company![/quote]

Agree.  Some seem very upset that somebody else's situation may not be remotely like their own.  They like to say everyone is unhappy and only staying because they are afraid or only there for the kids.  It's always name-calling and the woman is pathetic and settling for abuse of she chooses not to divorce.

Any long marriage (20+ years) is going to hit rough patches.  That doesn't negate the entire thing or mean that there can't be an even happier future if there was significant love and happiness for most of it.  Middle age can be a transformative time.  Some people change for the worse and there is no going back. They are a lost cause. Some go through a rough time, do the work and come out better people.  The latter isn't one to throw away. If you are married to somebody that changed for the worse and does not want to work on the marriage or stay, then divorce is the only answer.  But, that isn't the situation for everyone.  Not even close.[/quote]

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