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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would not be ok with that. I would have to,d him he had to choose between me or her four to six months into dating him. [/quote]

Sounds like OP did say that, and he said he's not willing to cease communication with EXDW.[/quote]

Yet three years later, she’s still with him. So it must not really be that big of a deal. [/quote]

OP: It is a big deal. It eats at me. I try to become more comfortable with the idea of their friendship, but it just doesn't ever stop feeling wrong.[/quote]

Then BREAK UP. [/quote]

OP: I'm asking for advice. That's what this forum is for. I'm asking people what they would do, what they would say, whether this is a normal interaction, etc. I'm asking, responding, and listening.[/quote]

Dear OP: it is not normal, especially after a 3-year relationship with someone else.  He has made it clear, though, that he won't change, despite how much it bothers you.  No, it is not normal to be friends with your ex-wife to the point of weekly dinners and drinks.  They have no children and no need to remain in constant contact.  She is a part of his life.  Leave him. [/quote]

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