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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Am I to believe that it's abnormal for your parents to yell at you? Occasionally hit you?[/quote] It wasn't abnormal at all for my father to yell at us or to occasionally hit us. It was actually very normal for him which meant that our behaviors did not provoke his yelling, it was his anger - of course, I understand that in hindsight. At the time, I worked hard at being perfect and anticipating his desires with the hope he wouldn't be angry/yell/hit. He conditioned us to believe we were responsible for his anger and behavior, not him. It's pretty f@cked up growing up with a parent like that. [/quote]
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