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There is no agreement for holidays.  She offered every other weekend.  He choose not to argue about it as reality is as a man he wouldn't get 50/50 without a court battle.  She isn't flexible in any way over the visitation schedule.  She probably wanted the visitation schedule limited so she can get more child support.  Now she's restricting visits and not being flexible and soon will stop visits all together.  Its clear to see where this is going.  [/quote]

It's just so funny that these types of fathers begin to want flexibility only on fun days and only when the child is already verbal and potty trained.  No one ever says to the custodial mom- hey, can I have some flexibility to help you change diapers? or get up at night? or run her to the Dr. appointment? It's always fun that they want. No one ever volunteers to help with the nonfun parts.[/quote]

This, 100x.  Dad has a new family and wants to play Mr. Good Daddy to impress his new wife.  He gets all the fun and happy times.  Mom gets the commute and the homework and whatever scraps of time is left.[/quote]

We don't know the entire situation.  Maybe mom cheated and left dad.  So, he was divorced by her choices.  So, yes, he is entitled to remarry and have more kids.  He's asking for more time and she's refusing  She cannot play victim and complain about things like homework if she doesn't allow him equal time so he has time to do the homework.  Why should Dad get what ever scraps mom wants to give?.[/quote]

He didn't ask for equal time.  He asked for fun time.   We don't know the entire situation but OP is the one posting here, not her ex.[/quote]

Its Angry NPD Sexless Dad Troll again. [/quote]

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