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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How did it affect you? Spouse is constantly angry. Feels like we (children and I) are walking on eggshells at home and don’t know what will set spouse off. When spouse is upset, spouse will yell and throw stuff (not at us). Spouse was not always like this, it’s related to the pandemic and a stressful job. We have young children and I’m worried about how this is affecting them. [/quote] Is he or any family members on the spectrum? Would he do a neuropsych to direct what type of counseling to best get?[/quote] +1 PP here. MIL and DH are definitely on the spectrum. This is a valid point. [/quote] Sorry to hear this. So is my DH, his father, brothers, uncles, cousins. Probably our firstborn as well. They get so overwhelmed with basic life that they shutdown/ignore or get angry, fast as mishaps pile up. It’s horrible but I stay to protect the kids. Not clear family courts get it about one parent on the spectrum. The mind blindness causes constant and real danger to the kids - backs over one w car, can’t tell what a kid is capable of at a gym or playground, slow reaction time/processing, and doesn’t answer their questions/wants everybody to go away and leave him alone. And this is on top of the emotionless marriage and chronic executive functioning skills deficits and daily snafus. [/quote]
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