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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As someone that has a BIL with severe social anxiety and agoraphobia -- do not enable him by taking him in. My BIL was able to buy a home with the help of his father (his anxiety did not allow him to be at the closing). He lived at home until 33 because his parents enabled it. Both need to be on their own. Trust me, you do not want to live with someone that has a severe mental health disorder. That said, do whatever you can beyond that to help them become independent.[/quote] Same here. One of my uncles lived at home until age 44 when the final parent died. He got 80% of the inheritance (over his other six sibs, who had jobs and lives) because the will assumed he needed help. He up and moved to the west coast, got a job in IT, and lived happily ever after. Single. [/quote]
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