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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You said you weren't serious with him so why are you giving this so much though?

It would not have worked out for you in the long run.

Cut your losses and move on.[/quote]

OP here...because it seemed like it could have potential to last a very long time. I want a long-term relationship. I just don't want to get married again. I do not think family ever needed to know. He said before he was not looking for marriage and kids. We seemed to be on the same page. This threw me. I would not have mentioned to family if marriage and kids were not in the future...I feel that this could have been the long-term relationship I wanted that did not have to result in marriage. I see no reason family needed to know unless marriage was discussed. It wasn't. [/quote]

Are you saying you wanted to date him long term but never wanted him to tell his family?[/quote]

Yes. Because I would not tell my family either. They would not accept it. I see no reason to tell family unless marriage is on the table. I have always felt this way...even in my 20s. Our families are not local and limited in person visits. A couple of times a year. Family never needed to know. Friends, fine. Local people, fine. Family? No. [/quote]

I mean you are already divorced.  Why would they not accept a new relationship?

-Indian woman [/quote]

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