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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A lot of this advice is way over the top, I mean drones..

Someone isn't going to use their real name and will call the AP from their work phone etc.

Easiest method was how my friend caught her pos DH. Small gps/magnet under their car. He was parking his car at random places before work and after for a hour or two. Mostly public shopping lots etc. The AP would pick him off and drop him off.  All the wife had to do was be in the vicinity of his car to see who was dropping him off. [/quote]

Yes.  This would have caught my POS ex.  He learned how to fake his iPhone locator to show he was other places, but a GPS magnet would have caught him at her house during his lunch hour.

Unfortunately, I had ZERO reason to even think he was cheating since we were having sex 4 times per week and there were no signs at all.

They never used phone/text.  Started with a burner email and fake name in dating site.  But- they then used Skype chat/messaging so there was no trace on phone bills.

Dirty cheaters are always one step ahead.  Lying f@cks.

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Having sex with your spouse doesn't mean anything. Cheaters have different morals/values which they can easily mask. Why many cheaters pick naive spouses. They are often predatory individuals. There's a reason they pick a individual they can fool.

I was with a cheater back in the pager days. First clue was being overly secretive with his pager, and promptly erasing the numbers. Other signs, but I bought a pager exactly like his. Even put a few scratch marks on mine, then switched them both out for a few days at a time. He was getting a code from someone, not the full number. That prompted me to follow him in my friends car, yep we caught him right away.  [/quote]

Stop. The spouses are not naive.  Quit spreading falsehood.  These f@cks are borderline that fool everyone.  Someone in a 20+ year marriage with a spouse that is always where they are supposed to be, not spending nights or weekends away USE the persons trust against them.  Nobody spends 20 years of marriage when they have jobs and kids with gos magnets on their spouses cars or key loggers on their computers.  You can have their phone passwords and not find anything.  It’s 2021.  [/quote]

She had me at 'pager days' :lol: .  Yeah pre-smart phone, pre-email, pre-interent (much less pre-craigslist and pre-internet dating sites, pre-affair websites), pre Skype and messaging systems that leave ZERO trace on a phone bill or a text trail.  You can have your spouse's email and phone passwords and you won't find anything.  Cheaters don't even use their phones or text to communicate, honey.  They can hack their iphone location.  You and Nancy Drew aren't going to find evidence like the old 'pager days'.  There is nothing physical to show.  Cheating rates have risen, particularly among women because it is so easy these days.  A SAHM who wouldn't have any means to find a co-worker to bang or a man IRL has the entire world wide web to find her AP from the couch.[/quote]

Years ago when I had an Ap I was smart about it he was dumb. He's the smartest man I know but a terrible cheater. Paid for our hotel rooms with his credit card. He thought it was fine because they kept all of their finances separate. I wasn't surprised when he called me pissed that she went through his bills and saw the expensive meals.

He thought he was smart. Including washing his face and genitals before he headed home. My ex on the other hand suspected but never had proof. I have a very high sex drive and for the first time in almost a decade I began saying no thanks. Everything he did repulsed me after I found out about his two affairs. He said what I did was worse because I was with my ap for years and he was with his aps for a few months. I don't see the difference we were both trash.

I eventually got tired of being physically and emotionally abused. I left for good when he sexually assaulted me. The only gps I used was garmin I had an erratic work schedule which helped. [/quote]

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