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[quote=Anonymous]OP it does sound like you love you and your life here more than your wife, your marriage and accommodating each other’s desires. I’d never see my DH wanting to make a change-even this significant one-as a rejection of ME. The way you frame it it sets up an all or nothing path. You work remote now. Are your kids young? Why can’t you agree to a year of setting up a trial there and give it a fair chance? Rent out your house here b/c if the town is truly as small as you’re setting it up to be, you ought to be on the positive cash side of renting there that your options remain here. My guess is this is a power dynamic and you worry that a more fulfilled partner diminishes your role (your ‘the life you’ve provided’ huge red flag.)[/quote]
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