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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok so if you accept you are no longer attracted to your spouse because they let themselves go, do you still have an active sex life or just coexist as friend? How to you make yourself feel ok about having sex with someone that's very obese if you're dawn to people on the thinner side?[/quote] I have the opposite issue. I am attracted to more muscular men, and my DH has lost roughly 40-50 lbs since we were married. Really though, I prefer that he is home with me and the kids instead of going to the gym every day, and I prefer that he eats meals with us rather than high caloric density foods and protein shakes. And of course I still have sex with him. I still love him and it still feels good. As far as feeling ok about it, I don’t know how you could feel ok about refusing sex with your spouse. [/quote]
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