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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not entirely clear what your current situation is because you said 50/50 in one place and just a check in others which would imply limited visitation.

Assuming it is the latter, I think as a practical and a logistical matter it would be hard to go from little visitation to the child living with you full time.  If the child wants to live with you full time after graduation it might make sense to increase the time they spend with you now so you're not going from almost nothing to full time all at once.[/quote]

No - you are confusing my op with other posts. My DC are 50/50 - always have been. [/quote]

Got it.  I see you said in a subsequent post that there is a lot of conflict.  I think it's worth you and the other parent having a discussion with the child about where they are going to live so that it's not a surprise in June when they graduate so they can make plans.  As part of that discussion you could set conditions now that some of the conflicts have to be resolved.  [/quote]

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