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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did your therapist suggest sending emails like this?   I can't imagine how I would react to dh just sending me a list of problems he had with our marriage.  It doesn't sound very constructive.  [/quote]

No, but in therapy which is once a week, we get through maybe one or two discussions about the past week. In any given week, we  have at least 10 issues and then there are all the issues of the past to still resolve. Therapy isn't a magic cure and there is no way therapy alone for 45 minutes a week is going to solve all of our issues. I just didn't really want a friend seeing my private emails. I didn't mind him talking to a friend and even encouraged it. I just thought the forwarded was overstepping and also showing me that he didn't really have the capacity for discussion and that he was better at confiding in him than with me or with the therapist. The forwarded emails didn't even have his own commentary. It was like he was using my wording to speak for himself.

I get it. It's not a big deal for a guy to do. I'll get over it.[/quote]

You are contributing to this mess of a marriage.  I get it, you're mad at DH.  But either split up or try to actually work on it.  Hint....sending an email with a list of all your grievances is not going to do anything positive. [/quote]

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