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[quote=Anonymous]22 years is a long time. Just because an 18 year old gave up a baby for adoption, doesn’t mean that a 40+ year old is not wondering sometimes about that baby and how her life turned out and if she’s alive or not. The fact that adoptions are still closed makes it much more difficult for the birth mother to look, and she would have the same hesitations of ruining her birth dd’s life if the adoptive parents didn’t tell her that she’s adopted. Just like the PPs are catastrophizing that birth mom’s life would be ruined, the birth mom may have exact thinking and would be hesitant to make the first step. If dd wants to find her it’s for dd to make the steps.[/quote]
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